Responsibility

We cannot solve life's problem except by solving them...

This statement may seem idiotically tautological or self-evident, yet it is seemingly beyond the comprehension of much of the human race. This is because we must accept responsibility for a problem before we can solve it. We cannot solve problems by saying "It's not my problem". We cannot solve problem by hoping someone else will solve for us. The only way we can solve problems is to say "This is my problem and it's up to me to solve it". But many, so many, seek to avoid the pain of their problem by saying to themselves :"This problem was caused me by other people or by social circumstances beyond my control, and therefore it is up to other people or the society to solve this problem for me. It is not really my problem"

One of my friend got addicted to alcohol in the beginning but he denied that he was an alcoholic, or even that his use of alcohol was a personal problem. He kept on saying that this town would drive anyone to drink. His drinking continued and this made him separated from his girl-friend.

And lately, i saw him in town again. He gave me a shocked when i first saw him in front of me. A perfectly talented, good looking guy in his teens is now a drug addict. I approached him and ask him why he had done this to himself.
'To kill myself of course'
'Why do you wanna kill yourself then?'
'Because no one gives a damn and i can't stand this sickening life anymore'
He began to cry in a whining sort of way. 'I don't have any friends. I'm all by myself all the time. I lived in a stupid housing area and none of them even care about me.'

I glared at him and ask:" Is that their problem to care about you? You should be handling your own life and you have to be responsible. Although you control your own life, but you don't have the power to end up your own life and the thing you are doing now is against the law'. He rose his voice. 'Are you my friend? Why don't you just support me for what i am doing now?'

'At first, you are an alcoholic and it's ok to me. But then you 'improved'. You are once my friend and you always are. I had the responsibility to lead you to the right pathway.'

He broke down into tears and promised me to change. Frankly, i don't really put much hope on him. I knew him well, maybe too well.........

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All-time favourites

SOmetimes when we touch..




Killing me softly with his song




You make me feel brand new


I wrote this post is to introduce some oldies to you guys. Hope you guys like it~

Photos~

Photos update :


Love this photo..o0o



Having green tea with my 'mum'..not WIFE



WTF?!a pair of testis and a penis?!nola..it's obvious la..



OMG!!that's a big one~



And finally..a normal photo of me and dun huang~



He tried to grab my hands and got caught by paparazi??nola..actually im passing him the guitar strings~

A Message by George Carlin

A Message by George Carlin:

The paradox of our time in history is that we have taller buildings but shorter tempers, wider Freeways , but narrower viewpoints. We spend more, but have less, we buy more, but enjoy less. We have bigger houses and smaller families, more conveniences, but less time. We have more degrees but less sense, more knowledge, but less judgment, more experts, yet more problems, more medicine, but less wellness.

We drink too much, smoke too much, spend too recklessly, laugh too little, drive too fast, get too angry, stay up too late, get up too tired, read too little, watch TV too much, and pray too seldom.

We have multiplied our possessions, but reduced our values. We talk too much, love too seldom, and hate too often.

We've learned how to make a living, but not a life. We've added years to life not life to years. We've been all the way to the moon and back, but have trouble crossing the street to meet a new neighbor. We conquered outer space but not inner space.. We've done larger things, but not better things.

We've cleaned up the air, but polluted the soul. We've conquered the atom, but not our prejudice. We write more, but learn less. We plan more, but accomplish less. We've learned to rush, but not to wait. We build more computers to hold more information, to produce more copies than ever, but we communicate less and less.

These are the times of fast foods and slow digestion, big men and small character, steep profits and shallow relationships. These are the days of two incomes but more divorce, fancier houses, but broken homes. These are days of quick trips, disposable diapers, throwaway morality, one night stands, overweight bodies, and pills that do everything from cheer, to quiet, to kill. It is a time when there is much in the showroom window and nothing in the stockroom. A time when technology can bring this letter to you, and a time when you can choose either to share this insight, or to just hit delete...

Remember; spend some time with your loved ones, because they are not going to be around forever.

Remember, say a kind word to someone who looks up to you in awe, because that little person soon will grow up and leave your side.

Remember, to give a warm hug to the one next to you, because that is the only treasure you can give with your heart and it doesn't cost a cent.

Remember, to say, 'I love you' to your partner and your loved ones, but most of all mean it. An embrace will mend hurt when it comes from deep inside of you.

Remember to hold hands and cherish the moment for someday that person will not be there again.

Give time to love, give time to speak! And give time to share the precious thoughts in your mind.

AND ALWAYS REMEMBER:

Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breath away.


-George Carlin-


*This message is very meaningful. Spend more time with your love one~

我老了

随着岁月的流失，
跟着时间的脚步，
抹不去的回忆，
渐渐在脑海中浮现着~

曾经度日如年的我也渐渐的长大了。第一天上中学的情景，就好像是昨日的事。我认识不少朋友，无论在何处都有一个人陪伴着，知心朋友又有多少位？朋友就像一列火车中途有人下车，也会有人上车,但能真真了解司机的理想的乘客有几个？

曾经陪我一起渡过生命中的喜怒哀乐的朋友也开始成为路人。我试着珍惜他们，然而他们的出现偶尔会让我措手不及，但我也尽力的让自己不会留下遗憾。

我触动这一切，只因生命不能重来。感谢岁月赐予我的故事，包括那些爱与伤害。我老了，这不该是件难过的事。尽管这是一种结束或另一个旅程的开始....

~Merdeka~

Time flies.....

I remember when i was kid, my dad used to take me to an open-air stadium for count down. I was very short. My dad carried me on his shoulder so that i can have a nice view of what was happening. Mom kept on screaming and yelling to my dad and warned him not to carry me too high. When the fireworks blasted in the sky and everyone was shouting like a maniac, I followed what they did. Memories are so beautiful......

Now I'm 16. I had a good life, a bunch of lunatic friends, a few enemies and a good career. What I'm hoping is everyone will stay happy and healthy forever...

The world keep spinning
Sunrise and sunset
People are born every second
People die every second
No matter whoever you are, you can't stop those things from happening...

Life's a journey without end. Appreciate every passer-by and beautiful moments. These are things that make your life beautiful and different from others. Face all problems with bravery. Never try to end up your life as a lot of people is fighting to live. This is really a wonderful world. If I'm going away one day, i will never regret as i have seen many things and experienced them.....

Appreciate life! Make this world a wonderful place for everyone!!